Rant, online dating, not going well lol

From the west coast...tried online dating here but lawdy seems like the latinas out here are vicious on cashapp'ing lol. I love the cuban accents these girls have but I think pay to play is just part of the game here. Gas, uber, este, esta, ésto, and then to get called "tacaño" for ignoring them lol ... I get online dating is usually hit or miss but lawdy lol