How do i find a bestie

Hi everyone, I'm seeking advice on how to make real friends. The last time I can honestly say I had close friends was back in high school—and that feels like forever ago. Since then, we’ve all grown apart. I’ve had coworkers I’ve been cool with, but nothing on a deeper level.

Now that I’m in college, I feel kind of lost. It’s like if you didn’t find your “bestie” in the first week, you’re just left behind. I can hold conversations and even make people laugh, but no one ever asks for my Instagram or tries to hang out. I constantly hear about others making plans, and it leaves me feeling left out.

I’m tired of the person I’m dating being my only friend, or only having long-distance friendships that don’t really give me daily support. And please don’t just tell me to join a club—I’ve looked around and most of the events I find (especially on Eventbrite) don’t feel like the right place to meet girls my age and genuinely connect.

I’m just tired of feeling like I’m suffering alone. I’m only 22. I want to live my life and enjoy it like other girls my age seem to. Any real advice would mean a lot.